Reprinted below is an article the Sudbury Valley School journal published last month. It captures so well the reality of growing up in the twenty-first century, we decided to post it here. Enjoy!
“There’s More’n One Way to Skin a Cat”*
by Mimsy Sadofsky
We have a lot to muse about as we struggle to make ourselves comfortable in a world that seems to be mainly for people whose brains are more advanced than ours.
Who is we? Well, it is my generation, for sure. It is in no sense today’s generation, and the fact that my children (that middle generation; my kids are now middle-aged people) can manage to actually fit their limited brains into the 21st century reality, and make it their own, is impressive to me. Because they were not, as my son said once that his child was, born with a computer (you remember, silver spoon) in their mouths. Some of you fall into that middle generation.
Now, I know the difference; I know about this stuff at least in the abstract: I work at Sudbury Valley where it hits you in the face from 8 in the morning till well after 5 in the afternoon. Every kid can speak languages I know nothing of. Every kid knows worlds my parents would never have dreamt of. But how to discuss it abstractly is never clear, because what we are talking about is the material these kids have for building models of reality, and we are always on the outside of anyone else’s models of reality. What their mom and dad want to know is if they are going to learn whatever other 4th graders or 10th graders know. What they know somehow, each of these kids, is that the school lock-step curriculum is totally unrelated to how they develop their own ... Read More
Last month, for the thirteenth year in a row, Fairhaven School’s Theatre Corporation staged a production. This year, they decided to host a dinner theater. Staff and students set up the room, and parents cooked the baked ziti and black beans. The mother of the murder “victim” baked bread from scratch! Our resident student pastry chef made scrumptious desserts. Cast and crew served the audience. As for the production, it was a hilarious send-up of the murder mystery genre. Highlights included the dowager in drag, the ditzy blonde, and the Brooklyn gangster.
Bravo and thanks to all!
Go to the school’s home page to see photos.
Sometimes the news we hear from alumni is just lovely. This just in, from the email Inbox: Fairhaven School alumna Erin Umstead, class of 2005, has just released her first EP of music, “The Norway EP.”
Please support her work, just another example of the interesting, creative lives our alumni continue to manifest. (Kudos also to Erin’s website designer Ben Umstead, current Fairhaven substitute staff and member of the class of 2001.)
Here is the announcement from Erin herself, with links:
I wanted to give the community information on my debut EP! It contains four original songs and is called “The Norway EP”. You can stream it for free or download it for $1 (or more) here: http://www.erinumstead.bandcamp.com
Some other sites for people to stay up to date with me on are:
Facebook “fan” page: http://www.facebook.com/erinumstead
Twitter: http://twitter.com/erinumstead
Blog: http://www.erinumstead.tumblr.com
I will also be playing the open mic at New Deal Cafe in Greenbelt tomorrow, January 5th at 7pm. Info here: http://www.newdealcafe.com
Thanks for the support!
Erin
Happy New Year! It has been wonderful to be back at school these last few days. People seem to be feeling refreshed and ready to dive into new projects.
Today some students came up into the school asking what to do with bag of trash items they had picked up in the outdoor area surrounding the school. It turned out that they are a newly formed Pickup Patrol, and are planning a weekly cleanup. They did a very thorough job! Thank you Pickup Patrol!
This one comes from the Washington Post and is written by a guest and School Board member who took his District’s 10th grade test.
A successful adult, he failed the test! He has much to say about the disconnection between schooling and adult life.
We often hear students and families consider public school, so from time to time we post or link to articles reminding readers that you often get what you pay for with schooling.
School Meeting planned and hosted a wonderful winter festival this past weekend. Students decorated, made art and crafts to sell, organized a cake walk and potluck, and participated in an excellent talent show (with some fabulous parent and staff talent as well!) It was a great success and lots of fun! Thanks to everyone who came!
Can’t wait to do it again next year!
posted by Abbe
(The following was presented by Fairhaven School staff member Mark McCaig at the 2011 Fairhaven Sudbury conference and then again last Friday for parents in the Chesapeake Room at Fairhaven School. The talk opens and closes with a video clip of former United States Poet Laureate W.S. Merwin reading a poem and answering questions posed by Bill Moyers.)
W.S. MERWIN: That must be “The Nomad Flute.”
You that sang to me once sing to me now let me hear your long lifted note survive with me the star is fading I can think farther than that but I forget do you hear me do you still hear me does your air remember you o breath of morning night song morning song I have with me all that I do not know I have lost none of it but I know better now than to ask you where you learned that music where any of it came from once there were lions in China I will listen until the flute stops and the light is old again
BILL MOYERS: “I have with me all that I do not know. I have lost none of it.” What — how do you carry with you what you do not know?
W.S. MERWIN: We always do that. I think that poetry and the most valuable things in our lives, and in fact the next sentence, your next question to me, Bill, come out of what we don’t know. They don’t come out of what we do know. They come out of what we do know, but what we do know doesn’t make them. The real source of them is beyond that. It’s something we don’t know. They arise by themselves. And that’s a process that we never understand.
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So the topic that’s been inspiring me ever since I saw this interview is the very idea of uncertainty, what Merwin calls “what we don’t know.” This evening I just want ... Read More
Growing up, I learned that mistakes are bad. Success in school was measured by the things you got right, and there were very few chances to try again after making a mistake. I did my best to avoid making mistakes, because it always felt so shameful to do the wrong thing. Then I had an experience that gave me a different perspective…
Students consistently work to the best of their ability, noticing on their own when their product doesn't fit their vision, fine-tuning their skills until they reach a satisfying level of mastery. Spelling and other skills are gradually perfected over time, in an atmosphere of non-judgement.
I was in elementary school, and we were given the assignment to illuminate a short text, as monks did in medieval times (The text, mysteriously, was “Money is the root of all evil”). I remember it clearly, to this day, because of the unprecedented thing that happened while I was working on the assignment. I remember using my pen and ink and starting the “M”, (with a snake wrapped around it), and then quickly realizing that I should have done it a different way. I knew that it would look much better if I had a chance to re-draw it. I must have said so out loud, although I didn’t expect to be granted either the time or permission to start again. But, shockingly, the teacher responded by saying “It’s ok. You may have another piece of paper.”
ANOTHER PIECE OF PAPER!!! I couldn’t believe my ears. In all my schooling, I don’t think I’d ever had the chance to start over after making a mistake! We were always in a rush to move to the next thing, whatever it was. I started afresh, and this time the drawing matched my vision more closely. ... Read More
Rising Tide School is offering some exciting events in December! Please spread the word to families who may be interested in these programs. You can visit our website for information, registration forms, and directions. Or give us a call at (360) 753-0820.
Our winter Open House is on Sunday, December 4th, from 1:30-3:30pm. Come meet the staff, get a tour, and participate in a presentation and Q & A about Sudbury education. Prospective students, parents, and interested community members are all welcome.
On Saturday, December 17, it’s Parent’s Night Out! Drop your kids off for an evening of fun activities and a yummy dinner, while you do some holiday preparations or go out! Parent’s Night Out is from 6-9:30 pm and the cost is $20 per student/$15 per sibling. For ages 4-12.
We also invite you to join the fun for our first ever Winter Break Camp! Camp will run from December 19-22, from 9am-2pm each day. We’ll offer a balance of planned creative activities and student-led time. We’re looking forward to lot of fun! Camp is for ages 4-11 and the cost is $175 per child. Space is limited.
We hope to see you!
posted by Abbe
... Read MoreFour members of Art Corporation planned a trip to Seattle Art Museum. We had a great time!
What we saw inspired us, challenged us, and gave us new ideas for techniques and forms.
This ancient Kwan Yin is in an art museum, rather than the sacred space for which she was sculpted. Discuss.
Simplicity. Form.
Viewing a video of a performance piece in which a car is destroyed in a ritual manner. Or…?
We spent a while at this one. ”It’s about weight. And balance.” ”Or…education?” (Later, I read a bit about it. The artist, Heide Hinrichs, says ”It is much more a pedestal disguised as an idea of a shelf.”)
On the train home, I noticed myself seeing things with new eyes, with art eyes.
Pattern, form, and color are everywhere, food for the part of us that yearns to express what we see/feel/know in visual terms. Thank you art, for being a place for ideas of ideas, for inviting our stories to interact with your objects, and for helping us see through and into ordinary life in a whole new way.
posted by Abbe
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